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Posts that claim otherwise are subject to removal. There is a difference between saying "Men/women are always." and saying "When a man/woman abuses someone they often." Abuse can happen to anyone, whether they are male or female, transgender, non-binary, or gay or straight. If you are posting about a friend/family member, it is a good idea to change their name or use acronyms for security.ĭo not post or comment anything that implies that all men or all women, or anyone of any gender identity, are abusers or don't understand abuse. Please make sure nothing you are posting will put someone at risk. There are abusers out there who will hurt the person if they know they are seeking help or support, and people who are trying to ensure their former abuser does not find them. If you are an abuser looking for a place to post, try r/SelfImprovement or r/DecidingToBeBetterĭo not post anything that can allow someone in, or formerly in, an abusive relationship to be identified in real life. Even if it's about how you are trying to change and get better, there are other places for that. As such we do not allow posts from abusers. This sub is a place for victims of abuse to post. Suggesting otherwise will result in a permanent ban. Abuse is NEVER the victim's fault and there is nothing they 'did' to deserve it. Name-calling, trolling, and hate speech are not okay. Oftentimes people who post her have been, or are going through, hard things and are here for support or to support others. Do not post identifying information in an attempt to get people to harass or shame someone. However, doxxing or witch hunting is a bannable offence. Sometimes people can be awful human beings. No Witch Hunting/Posting Personal Information: This is a support sub and will not be used for gathering information from our users for research, school, or other purposes. Please be sure you are aware of our rules before posting: Any suspected troll posting, agenda posting, or creative writing will be banned. If you feel you would like to be a mod, even if only for a short time, modmail us with the word Mod If you suspect someone of being a troll or can verify it through post history you can modmail us with the link to their comment and the word Troll Mods have access to posts, even if they get deleted. Mods will cooperate with victims, reddit Admins, and all law enforcement requests to gather screenshots or evidence of stalking and harassment. There are others here to help and support you, or just listen if you need to vent.Ībusers troll this sub and in some cases have found their real life victim. This is a safe place for people to be able to freely share their experiences (so PLEASE no "You are so dumb for getting in that relationship," "Why don't you just leave" etc.).Ībuse can be anything from verbal to physical, emotional, digital, sexual, reproductive, and more.įor those of you in or previously in an abusive relationship, you are not alone. Anyone who has experienced an abusive situation or relationship is welcome - that includes romantic, intimate, sexual, spousal, coworker, family, and/or friendship relationships. This is a place to vent, as well as to offer support to others. This is a place for anyone of any gender identity who is or has been in an abusive relationship.